moving forward

the end of a relationship can be really painful but why allow that monster to hold you back? if your relationship is officially grilled cheese, you might as well grill your ex along with it xp

THE BREAK UP PHASES!

phase 1: you spend hours, days or even months doing nothing but cry, (with that amount of tears, you can definitely open your own aquarium)

phase 2: missing him/her is an obsession while wishing that they'll come back to you is the mission (only one thing to be said here, MISSION IMPOSSIBLE!!)

phase 3: walking down memory lane will be a daily routine and eventually you'll begin feeling worthless. (THIS IS MADNESS!!!)

phase 4: you begin feeling mad at him for everything you've become and start planning your own revenge.

phase 5: this obsession has gone too far. you finally let go and decide to take a step in moving on.

phase 6: you grab a few girlies and walk into a club, scoring countless phone numbers, your purse eventually overflows. (gawks)

SO HOW DO YOU ACTUALLY GET BACK IN THE GAME AND GET EVEN!!!???

1. shopping!!! - 'whoever said that money doesnt buy happiness didnt know where to shop' - BLAIR WALDORF

2. sing! dance! clean! - blast the radio, dance with the mop and sing your heart out!

3. D.I.Y spa day - have your own facial, mani-pedi and hair treatment.

4. go for a run - exercise improves your mood and alleviates depression

5. spend time with gfs - baking. watching a movie. sleeping. having your gf's company helps even if you're both not doing anything productive :D

6. plan your life! - there's nothing better than to start over again. take a piece of paper and a pen. write down your goals, hopes, and dreams and go for it.

7. throw his stuff out! - keeping memories trigger never help. throw them away unless those are super expensive stuff (like perfume and shade etc etc), sell it at a garage sale.

*grab it from MYC! *wink wink*
~good stuff good stuff=)